Transitions

Kids grow up too fast 

It's a total cliche I know, but that's because it's so craze balls true!

The sleeping chambers tugs at my heart the most every time it changes:

From bassinet

to crib,

to the lowest setting of the crib 

(for some reason this switch gave me the most tears),

to a bed bed?!

I am comforted though due to a simply wonderful quote that totally applies.

"There are no true endings, only everlasting beginnings"

                                                                                                                                                                -Dieter F. Uchtdorf (Grateful in Any Circumstances)

I've started to now get ever-so excited with every milestone we're presently hitting with my little girl.

Heaven's slice is maturing.

9 Reasons I knew I would be a Mother

I'm gonna shake things up and give you the "last but not least" reason first. 

1.  I was born a woman.
I so wish I read this talk prior to having my little one: (Click to read it-->) Are We Not All Mothers? by Sheri L. Dew. It is the #1 reason I knew I would be a mother. Here are some of my favourite quotes from the talk:

"Of all the words they could have chosen to define her role and her essence, both God the Father and Adam called Eve “the mother of all living” —and they did so before she ever bore a child." 

 ^"Motherhood is more than bearing children, though it is certainly that. It is the essence of who we are as women. It defines our very identity, our divine stature and nature, and the unique traits our Father gave us."

"As daughters of our Heavenly Father, and as daughters of Eve, we are all mothers and we have always been mothers. And we each have the responsibility to love and help lead the rising generation." 

2. I enjoy listening to the same song over and over again.
I should clarify - If I really disliked the song when I originally heard it then I will NOT enjoy listing to it over and over again. When I discovered the repeat button on my first stereo I was hooked. You know who else loves hearing songs over and over again??? Kidlets!!!

3. I love to cheer and applaud.

And I get to do it throughout the day now with my toddler! It doesn't even matter what I'm cheering over, I just love clapping and giving praise no matter what. This one time I got really into a hockey game in cheering the team on. I leaned over to my husband and said, "Huh, we must be sitting with the 'away-team' fans eh?" To which he replied, "Nope." To be fair, we were in the nose bleed seating and their jerseys were pretty well the same colour... don't worry it's not like it was an NHL team; I just love cheering!

4. I love teaching. 
Not enough to have become a school teacher obviously, but I love helping someone achieve that "I actually understand now!" moment. How awesome is it in my current phase of life to get to teach things that I already know so well: colours, ABC's, names of things, animal noises, etc. Getting to teach these simple things is so stinkin fun!!

5. I'm an avid self-discoverer. 
I love finding out new things about me; what I enjoy doing and am good at, so I can focus on those things I already possess to benefit others(especially my kidlets). I can focus better on being the mommy I want to be and am, instead of jealousing over the mommy someone else is. 'Mommy guilt' isn't really something I get much of (it's ok, you can hate me...) and I think it's really because I don't compare.

6. I'm good at simplifying and staying non-busy.
I can better roll with the punches and unexpected twists and turns of motherhood because I don't make many plans or schedule much anyways. I do things on priority levels and I can easily cast off things that don't make the cut. This diffuses a lot of moments where I could be angry or resentful at the things I wanted to accomplish but couldn't because my toddler wanted/needed something entirely different. People trump things and that is that, so why pre-occupy myself with a long list of busy things to do?

7. I'm not only fine, but very comfortable being a hermit.
Honestly, if I get social interaction from even just 1 close friend once a month and it's in a grocery store, I'm good for the next 30+ days. I'm fine with kicking it at home with my kidlet and hubby 24/7, in fact it's kinda my fave.  I feel like most women desperately want that time away... but I'm weird and can do without it for very long periods of time without getting cranky.

8. I love reading children's books.
The pictures, the colours, the short paragraphs, the simple easily-understood wording, it's all just wonderful! When I'm in an in between phase of not having little ones at home or having grankids, I might just keep on buying and reading children's books. Don't be alarmed if you see me at an elementary school book fair childless...

9. I love snuggles. 
I just love it so much when my little girl wants me to hold her and snuggles on me; my heart melts and my worries cease.

Heaven's slice is knowing who you are.

Beautiful Bodies Part III (3)

I was going to title this "I am really really really ridiculously good-looking," but I thought it was a little too wordy (Can you tell I recently watched Zoolander?). Actually the title is what it is because I've already talked about this in my Beautiful Bodies Part II post, but I wanted to talk about it some more.






I'm still so amazed at how high my physical self-image gets once I'm preggers. It's like all my clothes magically look fantastic on me I don't even need to change 2-6 times before heading out the door anymore. As I look in my tall body-length mirror I can't help but stare at myself because of how good I look. I take a look at myself multiple times a day in that mirror, just to see if I'm still as hot as I was the last time I looked... and I ALWAYS am!! I mean what's up with this sudden surge of finding my bod so gorgeous I have to stare at it like some shiny new object I've recently acquired?

Most women (from what I can gather) do NOT feel this way when they're pregnant at all, so what's the matter with me? Are my pregnancy hormones messing with my eyesight doing a photoshop overload? Has my brain devised this illusion to stop me from changing wardrobes because it would exert too much energy that would be better used for baby forming? Did my husband give me too many appearance type compliments over the past 6+ years that they've somehow been adopted as my own thoughts via preggo-brain? Have my pre-natal vitamins been laced with something? ...

All joking aside, honestly this is what I've come to realize: I am the most grateful for my body when I'm pregnant. My self-image has been pretty healthy over the past some odd years, but when I'm pregnant it is truly when I appreciate my body the very most. I know not every woman can get this blessing of carrying a babe. Even though my pregnancies aren't a walk in the park and I do complain from time to time, deep down I am consumed with gratitude to have such a blessing growing in me. I learned long ago that gratitude and happiness are one in the same; You can never be truly grateful without being happy and you can never be truly happy without being grateful. Because of this happiness I gain from being in this blessed state, my inward joy can't help but spill towards my feelings on my outer body shell. There are no more blemishes, no more flaws, no more uglies; just pure beauty is seen.

(Bam!)

Seing yourself as beautiful, hot, gorgeous, or what have you really truly does start from within as a gratitude of one's body. You can pound pavement, lift those weights, get your hair did, do some crunches, nails manicured, make-up done to perfection, scream 'Zumba!' at the top of your lungs... but you'll never find yourself pretty until lunges of gratitude are put into your regular workout routine.

 

Heaven's slice is being barefoot and pregnant.

Food War

Only in a geographical society where we are so spoiled rotten by food choices from price, to packaging, to taste, to convenience, to bulk, to nutrient potency, to brands, to colour, etc. do we take food so for granted... So for granted in fact that disputes on how, where, and what factors produce food are being thrown into question consuming certain LOUD extremists so much so that, may be not purposefully, result in the targeted destruction of this mass production of food that we have been so spoiled blessed with.

Don't tell people what they can and cannot eat, and don't be telling farmers and producers what they can and cannot do to protect their crops and livelihood. They're trying so very hard to save the food in which we all eat, but they can't do that if it is forced upon them to produce in such small quantities due to such poor quality.

If you don't like it then don't eat it; it's that simple, but all the bullying and the propaganda based on non-factual nor scientific evidence needs to stop.

Food should not be such an issue in a culture that is so very fortunate to have food literally at their finger tips, in their deep freezes, in their fridges, in their pantries, in their storage rooms, and in nearly every public location they may be attending. Let us all just stop trying to put such fear into the eyes of others in regards to food and the food industries, because unfortunately there are many falling victim to these scams causing the producer to suffer meaning we will all suffer.

I mean is there not still illegal drugs floating around? And people dying of starvation around the globe? I mean why has food been such a war front for people in a society blessed with such an abundance of it? I feel embarrassed for our society, having what others have died not having in their  country and using it as a means of such insignificant debates and prideful energies. Are we seriously that ungrateful as a society?

I don't get it at all... but what I do get is that:


Heaven's slice is not having to know the pains of non-choiced hunger and starvation.

This guy

I've been crazy blessed with a certain man in my life who treats me not only like a queen, but more importantly as a partner. So, I will be thanking him via embarrassing him on this post because sometimes I like to be ironic like that.

Don't worry I thanked him in person too cause 

we kind of live together which made it easy

The past couple weeks especially it seems that he has gone above and beyond even the sometimes crazy and irrational demands I've made on him. I really shouldn't embarrass him too much, so I won't share all the details of all the things he's done for me and our little family especially as of late.

But just so the world knows...


Heaven's slice is my husband.

I don't eat worms

"The early bird gets the worm." Confessions of a non-morning person.

Gigantic Disclaimer : statements below are not based on any sort of factual scientific method; therefore most all claims are a general biased stereotypical rant from one's own mind and should be taken as a humorous read and not an educational one.

Kinda wish you knew the ridiculousness of effort it took to take this "post themed" photo of myself. 

It would have literally made you lol.

Facts:

• Non-morning people enviously admire morning people. They wish that they could have that vigour and ambition in the morning.
• Non-morning people can and will get up early regularly if they are obligated to (as in - others are depending on them to get up early)...Though that still doesn't mean that they enjoy it. I've had a good 24ish years of consistently waking up between 7-7:30am most everyday of the week... and yet I'm still a non-morning person.
• Non-morning people are as good of parents as morning people parents. My daughter wakes up generally between 9-11am so I'm kinda living the dream life right now, BUT if that changes I will of course wake up earlier with her.
• Non-morning people are really pretty... but this is especially true in the late afternoon/evenings.
• Non-morning people are very humble. They never boast about being a non-morning person, and even if they appear to be a morning person, they feel a deep sense of being dishonest and allow others to know the truth that they are in fact not morning people. They would hate it if a morning person felt bad for waking them up. They feel huge guilt over anyone having to be put out by their vice.
• Non-morning people have the strong-willed urge to stay up late. This is when their creative genius seems to come out and/or their senses of humour.
• Non-morning people have a better sleep than morning people. In fact, it's so good that that is why they cling to holding to it as long as possible. We're just better at sleeping than your average Joe.
• Non-morning people are not vain. They will always choose sleep over personal beauty/style.
• Non-morning people generally don't like to nap. They don't usually feel the urge to because they know they'll get a wonderful night sleep as they usually do and can wait it out till nightfall. Plus they wake up from naps badly because it's like a mock morning that's not even real - it messes with our minds and we lash out helplessly after getting up from said nap.
• Non-morning people eat less calories. Probably because on the days when there is no obligation to wake up early, breakfast replaces lunch... meal skippage.
• Non-morning people do try to put on a happy face in the morning, but if you're an adult and they feel super comfortable around you, they won't try at all.
• Non-morning people are overall very happy and successful in life, seeing as they most always get an adequate sleep that helps fuel them.

Myths:

• Non-morning people despise morning people.
• If non-morning people form a habit of getting up early for a long period of time they would become morning people.
• Non-morning people don't sleep well through the night so they compensate in the morning.
• Non-morning people are lazy.
• Non-morning people are depressive.
• Non-morning people are messy.
• Non-morning people have no ambition.
• Non-morning people are scary/mean in the mornings.
• Non-morning people sleep in coffins.
• Non-morning people are selfish.
• Non-morning people are non-successful in life.
• Non-morning people aren't very good parents.

Basically what you really need to know is that non-morning people are just like morning people except we have way better sleeps that make it hard to want to get up from. We can and we will get up, we just don't like it. Also, never feel bad for waking us up cause we'd hate that you were put out in any way by this; we harbour a lot of guilt from having a way better sleep life than you!



Heaven's slice is sleep.

Pillow Talk

Let's talk about the '50 Shades of Grey' movie coming out  Psych!!! Pretty sure you all can take one wild guess on where I stand on that...

No, this post is actually about pillows! Yay!

So I've been wanting to add colour to my front living area and found that really if I could just add some in with pillows to my chocolate brown couches that that would do the trick. 

Problem is... I'm kind of a cheap skate and had/have a vision in my head that I'm just not ready to fully commit to yet. Enter in my brilliance of using stuff I already had kicking around that was serving no purpose:

A cheap table cloth I bought at clearance that never looked good on my table, scraps from when I redid my dining room chairs, a scrap mustard yellow strip of fabric, a handed down odd shaped long cable knit cream zipper turtle-necked sweater (did I use enough adjectives?), and an arms too short with button's missing plaid coat.

I also had some pillows kicking around:

And if it failed... meh... I'm out nothing.

This took me a lot longer than I would have may be liked (I have a toddler), but thankfully because I'm not a perfectionist I was able to cut a lot of time-consuming corners. They all come off easily and there was no need to make any buttons or zippers for this as I just used what the coats already had and the others were envelope style. The rosette pillow was by far my favourite to make though, as I already had the plain pillow and just needed to glue gun those fabric strips on - easy peasy.

 I feel like my house just got a tad cozier...


I must say though I found out that I'm not quite in the phase of life to be getting into these sort of time-consuming daytime projects. Yes, I'm super happy with the final results, but the stress of my little one in my sewing room getting into everything, throwing tantrums because I wouldn't let her sit on my lap as I was measuring/pinning/sewing, and seeing her escalate into sadness for my neglecting her... ya I think I'll try passing on all that. I even tried plopping her in front of the TV(gasp!) while I finished up some of it, but she wouldn't and isn't the kind of kid that's into screens really... which I'm actually so grateful for. She wants to be wherever I am and this phase I'm in is so crazy awesome I feel like I should be dwelling in it a lot more. Truly a lot of my "projects" can wait... "the best things in life aren't things!" after all and there's nothing wrong with only doing the needful.



Heaven's slice is making use of what you have and embracing your current phase of life.